Thursday, 18 September 2025

Slow social media

quote [ Something like 300 friends sounds right. Any more than that and you're a collector, and not using the platform to foster connection.

This feature alone already removes 90% of the marketing interests in the platform. ]

cough-cough – ok, like, other than most of the HN commenters, I feel like the remaining few at this place have some worthwile insights on the topic.

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daboo said @ 2:45pm GMT on 18th Sep [Score:1 Underrated]
I do regularly think about spinning up a small fediverse instance for my geographically local community. But then I remember I don't want to manage that.
Paracetamol said[1] @ 7:27pm GMT on 18th Sep
A common experience in many projects I encounter is this: no matter how flexible and lean you build these tools, it always ends up being a communication and care job, regardless of platforms or even media.
But then again you can always ask for help inside of these groups, people can fill a surprising range of roles.
hellboy said[1] @ 5:32pm GMT on 20th Sep [Score:1 Insightful]
Dunbar's number, the estimated number of people a human can maintain stable social relationships with, is 150. I think about that whenever I see people on Facehook or whatever with 1462 "friends".

(I'm out of practice and on my phone so I don't remember how to make this a link. Also, buttons aren't showing up for me.)

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunbar%27s_number

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